spl: Use CONFIG_SPL... instead of CONFIG_..._SPL_...

We like to put the SPL first so it is clear that it relates to SPL. Rename
various malloc-related options which have crept in, to stick to this
convention.

Signed-off-by: Simon Glass <sjg@chromium.org>
Reviewed-by: Marcel Ziswiler <marcel.ziswiler@toradex.com>
Reviewed-by: Martyn Welch <martyn.welch@collabora.com>
Reviewed-by: Svyatoslav Ryhel <clamor95@gmail.com>